Stair counting
At home · Steps 1–2You need: A staircase, or steps outside
Count each stair on the way up and again on the way down. Jump the last one and shout the number.
“Seven stairs! Let's count them going down.”
Math · Rung 1 of 7
Knowing what numbers mean: saying them in order, giving one number to each thing, and seeing how many at a glance.
Where this sits
Counting looks like one skill but is really several: saying the number words in order, touching each thing exactly once, knowing that the last number said is how many there are, and seeing small amounts without counting at all. Comparing groups (more, fewer, the same) and matching written numerals to amounts finish the rung.
Everything here is done with real things: stairs, spoons, stones, snacks. Writing numerals neatly can come later; knowing what they mean comes first.
This is the first rung. If your child already does everything on the "ready to move on" list below, go straight to Addition.
Each step builds on the one before. Most children spend weeks on some steps and days on others.
Say the counting words in order: songs, rhymes, counting stairs. To 10 first, then to 20.
"1, 2, 3 … 10!"
Touch or move each thing once while saying one number. Moving things into a cup makes it easier.
One button into the cup for each number
After counting, ask "so how many?" If they count again, say the answer with them.
"1, 2, 3, 4, 5. Five cars."
Knowing 1 to 5 without counting, from dice dots and fingers. Teachers call this subitizing.
Four dots in a square is 4
Compare two groups by lining them up one to one, then by counting.
"You have 5, I have 3. Who has more?"
Match the written numeral to a group of things. Read 0 to 10, then to 20.
7 on a card, seven spoons beside it
Your child taps each dot once and says its number out loud. The number stays on the dot, so nothing gets counted twice, and the last number they say is how many there are.
You need: A staircase, or steps outside
Count each stair on the way up and again on the way down. Jump the last one and shout the number.
“Seven stairs! Let's count them going down.”
You need: Toys, a bin
Count toys into the bin one at a time, one number per toy. When the bin is full, ask how many went in.
“How many blocks went in the bin?”
You need: One die, or dot cards
Roll the die and call out the number without counting the dots. Start with 1 to 3, then all six.
“Don't count, just look. How many?”
You need: Two plates, crackers or grapes
Put a different number on each plate. Line them up side by side, one to one, to see which plate has extra.
“Line them up. Whose plate has extra?”
You need: A walk around the block
Pick one thing to count: red cars, dogs, mailboxes. Count out loud together until the corner.
“Let's count red cars until we reach the corner.”
You need: Sidewalk chalk, a bag
Write 1 to 5 in chalk. Find one stick, two leaves, three stones and so on, and lay each set on its number.
“Can you find four pinecones for the 4?”
You need: Cards with 1 to 10 written on them
Give each child a card. Without talking, they line themselves up in order. Then count down the line together.
“Who comes after 6?”
You need: A bowl of beans or pasta, a cup each
Each child grabs a handful, guesses how many, then counts. Line up two handfuls to see whose is bigger.
“You guessed 12. Let's count and see.”
Line things up in a row, or move each one to a new pile as it's counted.
They haven't linked the last number to the amount yet. Say it with them: "Five. There are five."
English teens are irregular. Count past 10 often, out loud, pointing at a written number line.
Slow it down: one touch and one word together, like a drum beat.
Very common and usually outgrown. Recognizing numerals matters more than writing them at this stage.
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